5 Tips for introverts to become expert in Public speaking
Are you an Introvert?
Do you think you hesitate to share your feelings when you are in a
group?
You have a bundle of ideas but you can’t communicate them?
Do you hate Public Speaking just because you are an introvert?
It’s time to leave your diary behind and come forward, bring the
courage to stand on the stage, face the people, and show them what you have got!
Introverts don’t
need to worry about their performance in public speaking, don't hate public speaking
Find useful
tips for introverts to become an expert in public speaking as you go on!
Can introverts go for public speaking?
It is a question
that often crosses people’s mind that an introvert might not be able to make
presentations or go for a career that requires public speaking.
But let me tell
you, this doubt is totally false. Nothing is impossible for the one who
practices and has faith in oneself.
There are so many real-life examples of people who have followed their passion and beaten the odds!
One of them was Earl Boykins-
There are so many real-life examples of people who have followed their passion and beaten the odds!
One of them was Earl Boykins-
Had Earl Boykins thought, that because of his short height he cannot play
basketball, he would never have been at the place where he is today -
a renowned basketball player with a height of 5 feet, 5 inches where the average height of NBA players goes to 6 feet, 7 inches!! IMAGINE!
a renowned basketball player with a height of 5 feet, 5 inches where the average height of NBA players goes to 6 feet, 7 inches!! IMAGINE!
According
to the dictionary, “introvert” can be defined as a person who is slow
to reveal emotion or opinion.
This does
not mean that an introvert is reluctant to reveal or share anything, nor does this
mean that they fear public!!
It is just
that they are very calculative in terms of what to say and what not to say.
Let me quote
a story here,
I had one of my
faculties during my college who had been a corporate HR and later came into
academics. An HR professional has to be very good with interpersonal skills.
She had a successful career as an HR, won few awards too, later she changed her
path- came to the profession of teaching.
Now, What is
teaching?
Addressing
so many young and dynamic crowd, thinking on your toes, answering to their
questions and creating positive relationships around!
She was
excellent in her work.
And, guess
what- She was an introvert! Yes!
So, friends,
being an introvert does not mean that they cannot speak or they don’t have the
talent to speak in public,
It’s just
that they hesitate and sometimes become reluctant to express, they become
confuse about whether to express or not!
Friends, most importantly, being an extrovert or
an introvert is a choice, I believe!
It is made
because of your-
- · Experiences
- · Surrounding people
- · Expectations
- · Circumstances
- · Will too!
Now, coming
to reasons and tips too!
Tips for
introvert to become an expert in Public speaking
# TIP No.
1
You might
not want to gel up with people, but that’s your personal life.
Don’t mix it
with your professional one!
Remember my
teaching example in the beginning?
# TIP No.
2
If you have
decided to go for a public speaking event, research on the topic well, try to
find out your audience type as well.
Look,
whether your audience will be a group of students, faculties, corporate people
or your own colleagues.
Prepare on
the topic line.
Anticipate
the questions that can come from your audience.
# TIP No.
3
Become an
expert in Public speaking
Remember,
nobody can force you
It is completely
your choice of how much you want to speak, what topics to cover and what not to
cover.
# TIP No.4
The only
difference between your public speaking and an extrovert’s public speaking is
that-
- Extroverts will not think much about speaking about every angle of the topic, even if it covers their personal life.
- But introverts will be conscious about what should they share and what not to.
So, it is better to categorize some of the incidences of your real life that
you really would like to share in front of the audience, because it is seen
that when a speaker shares
some of his personal experiences, he builds a personal connection with the
audience faster and also creates a stronger impact on the topic.
So, try working on it!
Being an introvert, you will master public speaking
# TIP No.
5
Rehearse,
relax and Smile
You have to
remember that a good outcome can come out of practice. Even established public
speakers spend their day and night in improving their speech so that it looks
attractive in front of the public.
Before going
on to the stage, just forget you are an introvert or extrovert, just be
yourself and be clear with your thoughts.
Connect with
your audience, look at them with confidence and Smile!
This will be
the moment where you will realize you have achieved it, after that the journey will be all yours!
Being an introvert, don't hate public speaking
Remember, you
are an introvert by nature and that should be a choice in your personal
life.
But when it
comes to professionalism, practice is what makes you perfect and then nobody
can guess whether you are an introvert or an extrovert!
Tips for
introvert to be an expert in Public Speaking, I hope this article has helped you
in some way to gain some confidence and motivated you to move ahead with your
amazing thoughts to share which needs to heard!
Go on…People
are waiting for you😃
Totally pragmatic 💯💯
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DeleteGood Luck!
Will surely be coming up with more such articles!
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DeleteThanks a lot!
The one thing that I never understood about myself is, that I feel best, when I'm around people, who I feel a deep connection with and who accept me for who I am. I don't actually like being alone, I just don't like being with people, who drain my energy or consume me. Since I only have one or two friends, who make me feel accepted wholeheartedly, I feel either drained or lonely most of the time. There's hardly any balance there .. Keep writing more like this...
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DeleteSo, we should never focus on numbers but the quality of people around us!
That makes the real difference making us feel even more lighter.
Such a helpful blog ..really useful and appreciable
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ReplyDeleteSure...Thank you so much for expressing it so beautifully!
DeleteIt has really build up a good kind of confidence and motivation in me..your tips are very helpful..😊😊♥️ and your blog can make any introvert happy ♥️
ReplyDeleteThanks Akshata...If somebody is getting motivated through this blog, it's more than enough for me!
DeleteHope every morning you remind yourself to be more confident and happy and then you go to work!